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HBR: How to Give Tough Feedback That Helps People Grow

How to Give Tough Feedback That Helps People Grow

https://hbr.org/2015/08/how-to-give-tough-feedback-that-helps-people-grow

“To summarize, powerful, high-impact feedback conversations share the following elements:

  1. An intention to help the employee grow, rather than to show him he was wrong. The feedback should increase, not drain, the employee’s motivation and resources for change. When preparing for a feedback conversation as a manager, reflect on what you hope to achieve and on what impact you’d like to have on the employee, perhaps by doing a short meditation just before the meeting.
  2. Openness on the part of the feedback giver, which is essential to creating a high-quality connection that facilitates change. If you start off feeling uncomfortable and self-protective, your employee will match that energy, and you’ll each leave the conversation frustrated with the other person.
  3. Inviting the employee into the problem-solving process. You can ask questions such as: What ideas do you have? What are you taking away from this conversation? What steps will you take, by when, and how will I know?”

Stephen

Posted on: August 24, 2015, 6:27 am Category: Uncategorized