Even well-meaning people may be intimidated by the spectrum of gender identities.

https://lifehacker.com/you-can-get-better-at-using-the-right-pronouns-without-1848421018

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Conversational tips to respect someone’s pronouns

Say your own pronouns first

Use gender-neutral pronouns until proven otherwise

Ask them

Actually listen to their response

Final thoughts

“As gender identity keeps breaking out of pre-assigned boxes, we’re all going to slip up from time to time. If you’re worried about the backlash of offending someone, try to give that person some credit. While getting misgendered can be intensely painful for that person, chances are they will be patient and understanding with the learning curve you’re trying to overcome. Most of all, they’ll appreciate the fact that you’re going out of your way to be respectful.”